Friday, February 02, 2007

It's Not Weird Anymore... Norm of Today's Society


adapted from thestar.com.my

Stumbled upon this news article.

and the most importantly, it was the "most viewed" article of the day that caught my lazy eyes.

. . . . .

well, forget about the days when guys were all to blame for broken relationships...

- adulteries la,

- having multiple partners la,

- "yat koh thap liong shun" la,

- playboy lifestyle la...

wateva it is...

. . . . .

just forget it,at least for now...

as u can read from the this cutting, what is seemingly getting "rampant" nowadays among our society today...


who is to blame for this matter?

even before marriage already showing signs of disloyalty?

maybe it's too early to conclude that why one should commit in relationship when the world is too huge for us to see it for now?

but what i am to discuss or relate over here is the reason behind this ugly scene...

i reckon that this is just one of the news that happen to be reported, putting aside those unreported scenes (probably more than we could imagine!)

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what do u think? what's ur perspective?

it's all sweet when a couple starts to get involved and beginning to commit oneself and another in a relationship... i'm pretty sure about this

but in the mean time, many would think, since it's so nice to get court or trying to woo someone, why not try to go more "tryouts" to be able to choose the best?

why wana waste the "asset" that one has just for one fella that u wouldn't even know whether u are gonna be wif him/her forever and ever and ever rite?

do note that this goes for both genders as we shall not discriminate any sides in this issue lolz (trying to be fair laa rite)

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and if u tink thise way,

u're DAMNED!

i believe this is the cause for this incident...

i'm not trying to say that having choices is bad but then timingly as the elderly would say, one could not afford to undertake multiple relations at once rite? it's simply immorale rite?

if u so happen to disagree,

* 'cos y'all brotha's and sista's, we're livin' in da 21st century, yo! and we shall try to look forward and be open minded rite? *

well, if so, i've nothing else to say to brainwash ur polluted mind

on the other hand, take a moment of grace and try to put urself in the picture of this scene...

would u be hurt if u're one of the guys?

thinking that all the while u've been cheated, while trying to give ur very best just for him/her?

isn't it too selfish for this girl (in the news) to so-called "fool" the gentlemen?

if u tink it's worthwhile as it's just a game of love that u like to be well treated....just to remind u that some one else may not afford to be disappointed in such a manner...

thus, resulting in guys running amok?chasing after the girl with helmets? maybe gona be parang next time? i believe those guys gona hold a deep grudge in her...

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alrite, let's say something to give the "victim" inside the patrol car some consolation...

err..perhaps the girl is just sick and tired of her current bf that he decided to dump him?

so coincidentally she hasn't make it clear to him, this incident occured? or things just couldn't work out for both of them after a grace period?

well, giv her some benefit of doubt, shall we?

show some love for her yo'! (LOLZ)

(guys who are never-endingly wooing gals are called womanizers, rite? how about gals who never-endingly flirting with guys? what issit called? or such word never existed? lolz no offense!)

unless she is that type of girl (the type mention in parentheses), it is well understood the reason behind these...

hey ppl out there, feel free to comment about this...

this's just a public shout out

*peace out*



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kshern said...

i suppose the courting period is the most exciting period it most relationships and when the courting is over, the excitement goes with it, thus the search for a new person to court and get back all that lost excitement. a vicious cycle that can only be broken by developing a conscience and realising that this is something not acceptable.

Eve said...

gals who never-endingly flirting with guys?

what bout sluts? i tot most people will label them as sluts, no? just my 2cent. flirting is fun..to a certain extent of course.

i have quite alot to say on this topic. All of this are in my opinion. We are still young, plenty of choices to choose from. So why would I want to commit myself to another person totally? It's not like we are surely gonna get married. Even if we did, what does marriage guarantee nowadays, it's just a piece of paper, and there's another piece of paper which is fairly popular called divorce.

To me, i would rather date(to me, not bf/gf) before making sure and taking the plunge going to the next level calling bf/gf. No mess. If halfway, not really suitable, no breakup and all..just be normal. At the same time, we get to know few types of people.

Okla, tats all..i don wanna say more..or else, i'll be called city-lize, or polluted mind liau...hehe..

Spyd3r said...

KS: hey dude, I totally agree it's a vicious cycle of life... and of cos i can't accept multiple relationships for sure!

EVE: yups, no point committing too early, but then that doesn't meant that lady in the news is literally has any rights to fool the guys to the extent that they would raringly to whack her rite? there must be "something" going on behind the scene rite?

anyway i got your points!
will keep them in mind lolz

CY said...

I wonder how the journalist knew the two were having an intimate conversation ;)

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